Creating Energy

One of the things I'm really in tune to is creation energy while planning an event. It is distressing when I hear clients say negative things about possible outcomes at an impending party. It is not necessary to make such comments and it is not part of the creative process. Venting I can understand, but creating negative energy while planning the most special events your family will ever attend I don't.


Think of it, if you go through all the things that can go wrong my mindset will be negative, you will have a bad taste about the event and you will be creating something no one wants to be a part of.


Keep your mind in a place of what is going to go right, that all is as it should be, that Creator is with you in your endeavor and that you are in charge. It is such a safer place to come from and it is a place of power. You have the power to create something that is fantastic.


I recently helped produce a house warming or "Saturday Diversion" for my sister in Houston, TX and she had some negative vibe things going on every now and then as it was her first BIG party at her new home. I just rode the bumps, knew I understood what her doubts and concerns were and kept moving forward into the solution.


BTW - we had a fantastic event, everyone was on point, we all had time before the party to do a few things we wanted to, every one of us on the "entertainment team" looked great as well. What a refreshing afternoon.

"Enjoy The Engagement"

One of the most brilliant things I have heard in ages I heard today from a hostess helping plan a wedding I'm to produce. She said, "They really need to enjoy the engagement, I want them to get this all out of the way so they can have a good time."


Well, is that a mouth full. Think about it, getting this slippery fish all cleaned up and taken care of so you can enjoy your life with your mate to be? What a concept. From a man that has seen it all, at least I hope so, take this to heart ladies.


How many times have I had last minute brides loading things, freaking out, waiting till later and when later comes, OMG - let us all have the mercy of the Lord upon our heads. It is not worth it.


Get it out of the way so you can enjoy the engagement. The best reason I have ever heard to get a wedding planner, someone to wrangle out the details fast so you can rest in peace and enjoy the parties, enjoy each other's company, go shopping together and not be stressed out.


Amen Sister